Late-diagnosed autistic adults often describe a specific kind of grief — looking back at a life lived without a map, finally understanding why so much was so hard. Getting a diagnosis, or recognizing yourself in the description of autism for the first time, doesn't erase that. But it changes what you do with it.
Autistic adults are a diverse group — there is no single presentation. What they share is a nervous system that processes the world differently: sensory input, social information, transitions, expectations. Some have known they were autistic for years. Many are diagnosed later in life, after decades of adapting, compensating, and wondering why certain things that seem easy for others require so much more effort.
Masking — the effortful process of suppressing or camouflaging autistic traits to fit in — is extremely common, particularly in adults who were not identified early. It is protective in some contexts and deeply costly over time. Research consistently links chronic masking to burnout, anxiety, depression, and loss of sense of self.
I work from an affirming, non-pathologizing framework. Autism is not a disorder to be corrected. It is a neurological profile with real strengths and real challenges — and therapy should address both honestly.
That means we work on the things that are actually causing you difficulty: anxiety, burnout, relationships, identity, the particular exhaustion of navigating a world not designed for your nervous system. We don't work on making you less autistic. We work on building a life where you don't have to pretend to be something you're not.
I am PEERS trained and W-CAT credentialed, with over 20 years working with autistic clients across ages and presentations. I work with adults, young adults, and teens, in person in Newport Beach and via telehealth throughout California.
A note on late diagnosis: Research shows that receiving a diagnosis as an adult — even late in life — is associated with meaningful improvements in self-understanding and mental health, particularly when followed by appropriate support. If you've recently been diagnosed or are exploring whether autism fits your experience, you're in the right place.
In person in Newport Beach · Telehealth throughout California
$200 individual sessions · Superbills available